There are many reasons why people stay. Sometimes, wives want to keep the family together for the children. Others stay for financial reasons or due to the fear of being alone. It is not uncommon for wives who have been married for many years to believe it is shortsighted to leave without at least trying to repair things. So, here are my six pieces of advice for women who find that their husbands cheat and want to investigate if they can heal and remain in the relationship. 1.Get support, support, and more support! Recovering from infidelity is a difficult thing. You ego has been bruised. You feel inadequate as a wife and as a woman. Your sense of trust has been broken. Your partner feels like a stranger who has lied to you for many, many years. You don’t know what to believe about the past and, almost certainly, what to believe about present. Are more lies being told? Will you be able to tell if they are? As a result of this betrayal , you may also become hypervigilant and suspic...